A couple weeks later I received a phone call from my friend. She had called to talk about her now ex (My Boy). She asked me “why would he mess up? I was truly in love with him & I never gave him a reason to question me about being with another person.” She also said, “ She never pictured herself being with anyone other than him.” As I heard those words I felt her pain. I heard the agony in her voice. I could picture her tears rolling down her face. I was really lost for words because I knew it was nothing I could say to change her mood.
The next day I realized that I also needed to know the answer to her question. In a world where today’s generation women are taught to ask where the cash at & the men are told that being with more than one woman makes him the man. The playing field looks slim. So Why do men & women mess up a good thing?
Some take for granted their significant others
Men and Women alike sometimes do not value their spouse/ mate until it is actually too late. Show him or her that you do care and value them as much as they care for you. Being in a relationship both parties should be on the same page.
When in a relationship male or female must practice the act of dying to self. If not the relationship will never work because relationships take sacrifice. If one cannot sacrifice his/ her relationships will always end in failure.
Having a agenda
Sometimes Both men & women have to be careful now days. Some people are only in relationships with someone for what they can do for them whether it be physically or materialistic. Always Make sure you get to know who you are dealing with before it is too late. Make sure they love you for who you are & not what you can do for them.
Getting too comfortable
In a relationship sometimes both Men & women can get to comfortable. They forget to do the special things for one another. The flowers stop coming. Compliments are seldom & the passion is lost. Never get too comfortable because it’s always another person waiting to to take care of things you lack.
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