Some women blame themselves for not finding it, thinking its something wrong with them when in reality it isn't. The problem could be that you look like your looking for something or your actions show that your looking for something and guys can sense desperation (for instance; when you cant find that shirt you were looking for, a person would ask you whats wrong before you can even tell them and thats because you look like you're searching for something)
(1) You will learn more about yourself
(2) You'll become a better person
(3) Love will find you.
So find what makes you happy, find what make you sad, find out exactly what it is that you're looking for in a partner (make a list and write it down, it'll keep you from settling for a guy that you have no interest in). Have fun with friends, do something you've always wanted to do, & don't force yourself to love someone just because they're around (that may actually cause you to miss out on your true love)
Take your mind off of finding the one and the one will find you.