Those tears you cried could have been avoided. The things he does that you hate could have never irritated you. The hurt of not being cherished like a woman is suppose to be, could have been a feeling that you didn't have to endure. Don't get it twisted, experience is life’s best teacher. With that being said some women still place themselves in the same situation time in & time out. The man that beats on you gets another chance to do it again, The man that places his hands carefully on you to massage you is gone. Him calling you beautiful is mistaken by him being too nice. Him calling you out of your name is acceptable. Wow, times has really changed tremendously.
In many cases from my female friends I hear the blame being place on the men they chose to be involved with. I never hear Maybe I need to reevaluate & take a better look at myself. I do not consider myself to be a doctor or a therapist. I just watch, listen, & observe. I call a spade a spade.I Point out the right from the wrong & cleary this is becoming a big problem. As a man it’s hurts to see some of my friends & even many women who I do not know sell their self short due to their own bad judgements. It’s really getting worst. At one point being cheated on was the deal breaker. Now, women are making excuses for the men but still cries or feels betrayed but forgets she choose to stay with him. Nonsense.
Listen Ladies You are a prized possession. Your hurt, your pain, & your shortcomings are not always the man’s fault. It is time to open your eyes and realize the problem is You. Look at the pattern of guys you choose to date, the negative that you choose to accept once you're in a relationship, and most of all look at Yourself. You deserve to be happy but first you have to realize this. The world is filled with too many men for you to settle. Ladies I ask that you take responsibility for your actions and I challenge you to reverse the blame game. Once you do this I guarantee you will see a big change & possibly make your dating life less painful & a little bit easier.
Editor Chip Abraham